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Taking it slow means that you would like to get to know eachother a little better. You want to make sure things are not based on sexual encounters. That all depeds, of course, if you are “feeling” the other person. If you do not have that relationship spark then you have to decide if it is worth the wait.
I am 24 and have never really been seriously involved with any women. My entire life has been about education/sports and activities with my friends. Now that I am older I am in dire need of companionship. I can only respect a woman who would make me wait at least a month to receive her. I’ve had alot of women give themselves to me instantly and found myself treating them in a sub-human fashion. Respect is the key
I read this question and looked for the answer that best suited me and none actually fit. For me taking it slow means that there is no timetable, that we are taking the time to get to know each other and feel comfortable in each others presence, enjoying the small things. Sex is a big step in my eyes, so if my partner and I choose that route, it would mean that we have made the decision that we have a deep enough relationship and that in offering our bodies to each other we are taking the step to further deepen our relationship. For me its more of a feeling of chemistry, connection, and intimacy, than it is an amount of time. If I am feeling it, then it just works, but realistically, that level of intimacy for me, means something like a commitment.
my basketball coach is so incredibly beautiful…she’s like 15 yrs older…i felt so wonderful being near her..when it happened it was like neither of us expected it..spontaneous..it was great…only like the 3rd time we’d been alone together but it was the roght time, you know?
In my opinion, taking it slow refers to quality time spent with my proposed partner in an effort to get to know her on a deeper level first. I.E. Conversations, dating, sharing thoughts and ideas, concepts etc…just overall ascertaining if she is really worth my sharing such an intimate act with her, as well as to determine if our attraction is only physical or something more.
Taking it slow in my opinion is about getting to know every inch of her body not missing anything, watching her eyes glaze over with every touch that excites her or catching that sharp intake of breath when a shock of pleasure surged through her and caught her by surprise and feeling her grip tighthen with the dialogue i’m having between her thighs, takin it slow means taking in everything not missing a single sigh,moan,gasp or scream.
January 15th, 2008 at 8:30 am
Taking it slow means that you would like to get to know eachother a little better. You want to make sure things are not based on sexual encounters. That all depeds, of course, if you are “feeling” the other person. If you do not have that relationship spark then you have to decide if it is worth the wait.
January 27th, 2008 at 12:48 am
I am 24 and have never really been seriously involved with any women. My entire life has been about education/sports and activities with my friends. Now that I am older I am in dire need of companionship. I can only respect a woman who would make me wait at least a month to receive her. I’ve had alot of women give themselves to me instantly and found myself treating them in a sub-human fashion. Respect is the key
February 22nd, 2008 at 1:26 am
For me, sex is the ultimate goal of an intimate relationship. It shouldn’t be passed out like candy.
PS: I’m loving your blog!
February 26th, 2008 at 6:12 pm
I read this question and looked for the answer that best suited me and none actually fit. For me taking it slow means that there is no timetable, that we are taking the time to get to know each other and feel comfortable in each others presence, enjoying the small things. Sex is a big step in my eyes, so if my partner and I choose that route, it would mean that we have made the decision that we have a deep enough relationship and that in offering our bodies to each other we are taking the step to further deepen our relationship. For me its more of a feeling of chemistry, connection, and intimacy, than it is an amount of time. If I am feeling it, then it just works, but realistically, that level of intimacy for me, means something like a commitment.
March 13th, 2008 at 1:04 am
my basketball coach is so incredibly beautiful…she’s like 15 yrs older…i felt so wonderful being near her..when it happened it was like neither of us expected it..spontaneous..it was great…only like the 3rd time we’d been alone together but it was the roght time, you know?
March 29th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
In my opinion, taking it slow refers to quality time spent with my proposed partner in an effort to get to know her on a deeper level first. I.E. Conversations, dating, sharing thoughts and ideas, concepts etc…just overall ascertaining if she is really worth my sharing such an intimate act with her, as well as to determine if our attraction is only physical or something more.
September 20th, 2011 at 10:11 pm
Taking it slow in my opinion is about getting to know every inch of her body not missing anything, watching her eyes glaze over with every touch that excites her or catching that sharp intake of breath when a shock of pleasure surged through her and caught her by surprise and feeling her grip tighthen with the dialogue i’m having between her thighs, takin it slow means taking in everything not missing a single sigh,moan,gasp or scream.